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I'm a married, 30-something boy from the Midwest. I like to think of myself as a boy with a Disney princess inside.

I'm mostly cis, mostly hetero, but I'm not sure about much beyond that. I don't feel queer enough to fit in with the queer community, but too queer to fit in with the straights.

I have major crushes on femme people wearing costumes- especially princesses, furries, and clowns. I fantasize about being a princess but also about hooking up with one.

How many masculine folks around these parts wear makeup? I am rocking some concealer, eyebrow pencil, and a little blush today and I feel fabulously princessy.

! Did you know that 73% of statistics are made up on the spot, including this one?

If you're blue and you don't know where to go to,

Why don't you go where Harlem flits,

Your own closet because fashion is a valid form of self expression and it's not being a poser to dress differently than you're "supposed" to like this song implies just don't go broke doing it

By the way you look great today and your butt looks awesome in those pants,

Puttin' on the Ritz

! Today do one thing you wouldn't normally do, even if it's something as small as going in a different door at work.

! Its Christmas! If you're celebrating the holiday today, may your day be warm and bright. If you're not celebrating the holiday today, take some time to celebrate yourself because you're beautiful and you're worth it.

, tooters. Remember we're all the same on the inside: filled with organs and poop.

I had a rough day and need to play some dress-up tonight. Should I relax wearing my Alice costume or my Rainbow Brite costume?

and Happy Sunday! You owe your toxic family members nothing, not even smiles and nods at a stressful family gathering. You're in my family now. I love you.

Throwback to when I was trying to find a voice on Whisper (what a toxic place) and confessed to strangers why I dye my hair.

! Do something awesome for yourself today, even if it's just taking a shower. You can do this.

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My wife and I almost always go to sleep right after we put our toddler and preschooler to bed because adulting is tiring. Occasionally we stay up and I use the time to play dress-up and hang out around the house wearing one of my girly costumes. I wanna dress up SO BAD lately, but I'm so... Tired...

I need to dress like Rainbow Brite and play video games but... Priorities.

Just to be polite, it'd be great if everyone would mark photos showcasing their sex organs as sensitive. Looking at you, community.

One of the reasons sorting out sexuality and gender is so difficult for some has to do with how our brains work. We remember things through categorization. Our brains apply labels to everything we know. It's incredibly difficult for humans to think about anything without sorting it into some sort of category.

Awesome book that talks about this:

, fediverse! Go make someone someone smile today. If that person is you, even better!

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